After several years of marriage you decide that it is no longer necessary to continue being charming, exciting, entertaining, or maintain a level of humor and fun in your relationship. You feel unappreciated, frustrated, and angry. Your relationship begin to lose its flavor and turns sour. You and your spouse are bored with your relationship and start taking each other for granted.
Your marital relationship becomes just another routine of sharing a house for economic, social, and legal reasons. Like infidelity, money problems, lack of effective communication, and boredom in some relationships ranks high among the major conflicts leading to divorce. You stop trying to improve your relationship and believe that you married the wrong person. You wonder if you have fallen out of love and that illusive “one perfect person” is out there somewhere, who can make you feel whole and complete. (more…)
